Assalamu alaykum warahmatullahi wabarakatuh…
I would like to bring to light certain matters that have been a matter of controversy for some time now, namely the intimacy between Ahmed and Faz. From the time they got married I’ve had some readers point out that I’m going too much into details with their physical interactions, that it’s against haya, that it’s not allowed, that it’s a betrayal to my deen, to name but a few. Some have gotten pretty nasty as well, telling me how disgusting the content is etc etc… Previously I’ve responded to such comments individually in the comments section but this time I thought I’ll respond once and for all here so all the readers can read it and get a clarification, those who have commented and those who might be thinking similar things but have not voiced their thoughts.
My husband is a qualified, well known mufti and has answered many questions over the past few years. He is reliable and trustworthy and he’s also got taqwa when answering questions Alhamdulillah so he wouldn’t be biased just because I’ve asked him something in my own interest. I take his fatwas for all my mas’alas so previously as well I made him read the nikah post to ask him if I’ve written anything wrong. He asked me, “is this a married couple?” I said, “Yes.” He said, “in that case it’s fine. There’s nothing wrong.” I answered this to my readers but some were still sceptical over his answer, some implying that if I’d asked a senior mufti the answer would have been different. This time as well concerns are raised with people finding the content too explicit. Again I made him read and asked him if my writing is wrong. Again he asked, “they’re married, right?” I said, “yes.” He said, “then it’s fine.”
So to all the readers who still find the content wrong and unislamic; I have asked the mufti I trust and follow and he has given me his reply. My heart is now at rest. I will not force you’ll to follow the same mufti and fatwa. If you still find it wrong you can always unfollow and choose to read other blogs. We have many blogs written by wonderful authors Alhamdulillah. Read something you’ll are comfortable with instead.
To all the readers who gave me their feedback nicely, Jazakillah khair. I truly appreciate your concerns and feedback. As for the nasty ones… spare me your negativity in the future. I could do without your verbal sewage, really.